I recently heard something that was said by another person about what I was pursuing in my future. Funny thing is, I’m not pursuing that particular thing at all, not now, or ever! It got me thinking about my future, and quite frankly that person! I am 100% positive that person has never asked me my dreams, goals or ambitions! On top of that, I am not sure I would share those things with that person because they have proven not to be in my corner! My mentor Dr. John C. Maxwell warns that we should be very selective in who we share those things with. This got me thinking about how hard it can be when you are growing into the person you were meant to be. Maybe you find yourself there right now. Maybe you want growth, but don’t know where to begin. Maybe you’re growing, but are ready to give up because of people, and you’re hurt.
I am going somewhere with this, but first, I need to ask you some questions. Do you know what you want in life? Do you really know what your dreams, goals and ambitions are? Can you very clearly articulate them? Or, are you simply floating through life complacent just letting life happen to you? Only you can answer that! Only you get to decide will I chase after what I want, or will I live with regrets. We were all put on this earth for a purpose. Are you living yours?
I have been on a growth journey since October 3, 2018, and I am very clear on what I want! I decided I will no longer live with regrets! I can’t at this point in my life, I am pushing 50, I have no idea how many more years I have! I took the time, did the hard work and asked the hard questions of myself and figured it out. You will have to do the same if you choose to grow, figure out your dreams and go for them. There are people out there waiting for what you can bring to their lives. There are people who need just what you have!
Once you figure out where you are headed, you have to decide the cost of getting there. The cost can be great! You will have to make some hard choices. You will lose some people along the way. Quite possibly lies will be told about you. You will at times feel alone on an island. If you are not sure of why you’re even doing this, the cost may seem to great a burden to carry! Your dedication, focus and purpose will have to be ironclad, but show yourself some grace along the journey! You will shed tears, wonder if you’re doing the right thing, and quickly figure out who is for you, and who is not.
That brings me to my last point. You will need to share your goals and dreams with someone! You will need the tough love at times, the accountability at other times, but most importantly, the support. You must choose these people very carefully! Not everyone will be happy for your growth and success. Some will actually try to trip you up and stop you! Some will be jealous. Some want you to stay small! Some will question your heart, and your motives. Your discernment in finding your tribe must be strong! You must be strong!
I want you to experience growth and purpose in life! I want you to live a life of significance! I want you to add value to others and get out of bed each day knowing it might be hard, but so worth it! Hopefully I have stirred something up in you if you need growth! If you are already on that journey, but you are tired, and wondering if it is worth it, you won’t feel alone, you will keep going! If you haven’t found your tribe, keep searching and don’t settle! Everything worthwhile is uphill, but you are strong, and life on the other side will be so worth it! And just in case you’re wondering, I have found myself extremely hurt of late, and questioning my own journey so yes, I very much understand!
With love for you all,
Shauna
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